This guy was too inconsistent for there to be any meaningful progress. This mistress did not want to continue dealing with such a person and she had to tell him to stop associating with her. She told him as much but he did not listen. So she had to come up with a different way of doing things and that is why she wrestled him and choked him in the process.
Mistress Nikki did not like the behavior of this bigot and she had to punish him. She had to ensure that he stopped being bigoted. She had tried to talk to him but he did not seem to change so she had to punish him. The mistress went out of her way to wrestle and choke him. He did not expect her to be as strong as she was. She pinned him down and choked him as well as kicked and abused him.
This guy thought that since he was well built, he could mess with her man. He tried to bully her man but she did not like it and she had to stand up for her man and defend him and his honor. She did so by wrestling and beating the shit out of the guy. She was great at mixed martial arts and wrestling so she combined both skills to dominate and choke the guy until he begged for mercy.
This guy wanted to learn about wrestling and martial arts. But when he realized that his instructor and teacher was a girl, he felt like he had wasted his money in joining. He did not think he could learn anything from her. She could read what he was thinking and so she invited him to a wrestling match. He was shocked at how he could not do anything to her and she beat the shit out of him. He took it seriously after that.
Lady Zora was interested more in her peace and quiet than anything else. When her neighbor tried to mess with her, she ignored him so as to preserve her peace and quiet. He persisted and she felt it was time to teach him a lesson. So she used her martial arts skills to wrestle him and to choke him. She laughed as he cried and begged her for mercy.